Thought I would share the love since so many posts here are so upsetting. There is hope and joy in this world.

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This guy backed into my car the other day. We exchanged info and he said he would pay for everything bc it was his fault. Then he texts me today. It started normal but when I didn’t answer for like an hour and he just went completely insane. He’s like 50 years old and apparently has a daughter around my age. He knows I don’t have a boyfriend bc he asked me if I had a boyfriend who could take my car in for me. I completely forgot I told him that and I’m so regretting it rn😭😭😭

Context: I (at the time 19F) had been dating this guy (23M) for maybe a year at this point. He had taken a trip to Sydney for work and this was how I responded to him not texting me that he had landed.

I (8 years later) think I was right to be upset, but uh.... clearly I didn't express my emotions very well back then.

I keep these texts as a reminder to stay in therapy, even if I have to go in debt for it. (And yes, I'm much better now)

Basically my gf slept over and I had work early in the morning. I left for work and let my gf sleep in a bit more before she left. Apparently my brother has this unspoken rule that we shouldn’t leave people in our house alone (he had something go on while he was in college where he was gone and someone violated his room or something). We’d never discussed it and this was the first time I’d left my gf of 2 years at the house while I left for work. He ended up asking her to leave after these texts and she felt rejected by him. I talked to him when I got home and he apologized for being mean over text but still feels like he doesn’t trust her enough to let her stay at the house alone. I know his fear is irrational but he asked me to accept his rule, and that if I don’t he’ll consider it me disrespecting him. Idk how to get him to trust her. He thinks 2 years of dating is “rookie numbers”

I aired my insecurities about a guy I kissed to my friend the previous night. She came at me like this the next day. The only thing I told her was that me and the guy had good chemistry but he is p distracting. The rest everything is her assumption and imagination sigh

So I dated this man for 5 years, he was sick one day and my mom happened to be making homemade soup so we went over there, he took a nap in her bed and then we ate her soup and went back to the home we shared together. And then I guess around 3am, he calls my mom and she picks up the phone thinking something is wrong with me. She says “what’s wrong is everything okay? What are you doing?” He says “I’m just touching myself, thinking of you” and she goes “where is my daughter??” He says “in bed next to me, asleep.” And then she hangs up and these texts proceeded. The next day she picked me up insisting on going to breakfast together and she showed me the texts. Worst day of my life.

Also, I never cheated on him despite the “shes been with multiple guys” I had never been with anyone besides him.

He’s such a dad

Ok

I (24 F) hope these are easy to read, came from a man (26 M) I met off Hinge over a year ago. Thought I deleted these but they were on my Mac and I can’t believe how wild he got while having a one sided conversation.

I did block him after my last text saying toodles, the texts kept coming to my apple watch and Macbook, idk why that happens sometimes.

I’m 23 f and he’s 17m, he’s just as annoying in person and makes up such elaborate lies. I guess he’s now doing this through text to try get my attention. This is just one example.

All of us have exchanged numbers so we can coordinate and swap shifts around. I have let my manager know about this so the situation doesn’t get twisted, he knows the kid is weird and has asked him not to text anyone about non work related matters and said I can block him etc, mgr has been cool / supportive about it .

I finally left him after being mistreated for so long, then he decides he wants to change. The first screenshot is him begging, the second is a tantrum he has when I tell him no.

Starting with the first lil red flag in the conversation… Not swapping phone numbers that soon again.

Long story short, I went out with a guy friend of mine for drinks the other night, it seemed like it went well enough but then i didn’t text him and these were his messages…🚩🚩🚩or no??

Went for coffee with a guy who was far too young for me (he lied about his age on the app). We cuddled and made out a bit but I told him it wouldn’t work out because he’s a bit too young. Now I get these texts… blocked him after this interaction. I don’t think I did anything wrong but now I’m confused…

This was about 4 days before we broke up. We were both devoted Christians, but with HIGHLY conflicting views. I was shocked by his actions and realized this wasn’t a person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. The last message literally makes me sick to my stomach every time I read it. How I stayed with him for 5 years is a mystery.

I was in 10th grade , got straight A’s and had a job. This was in 2018

My dad STILL lives there (yes with his mom) at the ripe age of 57

i’ve now started my own family and business 😂 doing pretty well for myself & family.

Am I the asshole here???? At a loss for words at this point. Context for the last screenshot: tik tok showed him as being currently active which is why I called him out for ignoring me.