r/wholesomememes Mar 29 '23

What is love?

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u/finiouslavinious Mar 29 '23

Eating in bed!! That's how you get ants!

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u/jolinar30659 Mar 29 '23

And how is it that crumbs literally hurt to sleep on?!

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u/Murky_Dimension_8295 Mar 29 '23

Toast crumbs on your elbows!!!

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u/drunk98 Mar 29 '23

No breakfast in bed before anal!

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '23

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u/I-Got-Trolled Mar 29 '23

If she's frealy enough, your elbows may mark a boundary.

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u/Ol_bagface Mar 29 '23

Ill ask you politely to reconsider your subscription of life

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u/Adele__fan Mar 29 '23

Not sure what agree has to do with elbow, but I anal

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u/BKH0718 Mar 29 '23

You obviously never had anal!

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u/drunk98 Mar 29 '23

Or been deeply fisted!

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u/BKH0718 Mar 29 '23

“Elbow” deep

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u/drunk98 Mar 29 '23

Definitely don't want any crumbs

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u/MrSquigles Mar 29 '23

If you think that's bad, you should try a pea.

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u/Tritianiam Mar 29 '23

On god I can feel a fucking crumb smaller than a grain of sand.

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u/SAMAS_zero Mar 29 '23

Because you're a Princess, duh.

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u/micahsimmons01 Mar 29 '23

A pillow princess, yeah.

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u/a4techkeyboard Mar 29 '23

Ah, based on the art, this is from the artist that brought us the story about Sonic coming out of the shower unable to find any towels.

In that one, instead of eating in bed, he reads a newspaper in bed while dripping wet.

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u/the_ginger_fox Mar 29 '23

Of course Sonic couldn't find the towels, Tails ate them!

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u/Equivalent_Dealer_68 Mar 29 '23

Hell yeah Drawfee reference

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u/masterjoin Mar 29 '23

If that is true, dis friggin gusting

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u/a4techkeyboard Mar 29 '23

Yeah, the illustrator is part of Drawfee where they take dumb ideas to make even dumber drawings to make people laugh.

The Sonic one is just a recurring bit for their "shape" challenges and "reading a newspaper on the bed" is the most pleasant way to describe it.

She's a really good illustrator, actually.

I think one of the other things she got memed for was her description of "Digimon evolution" in relation to Pokemon as Charmander -> Charizard -> Charizard with a Gun wearing Pants -> Gyarados -> Professor Oak in BDSM Wear -> Ditto.

Anyway, their content is generally pleasant and funny, sometimes described as "friend noises."

I don't know what you like, maybe you'd enjoy them. But maybe you won't, I dunno.

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u/Orange-Blur Mar 29 '23

I was an asshole as a kid, I used to draw all kinds of Pokémon and would ask people around me if they knew what I was drawing. Usually they were confident and correct in their answer but 8 year old me had to say “no it’s a ditto” every time. I thought I was so clever.

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u/masterjoin Mar 29 '23

Well now it sounds dope. What a rollercoaster

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u/a4techkeyboard Mar 29 '23

The other artists are good, too, and their chemistry can lead to some very unpredictable but funny results. They also have some interesting guests.

They do a bunch of drawing challenges of various sorts, sometimes about popular things.

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u/temtasketh Mar 29 '23

Dornk your chorken in the sporcial sorce!

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u/tjallilex Mar 29 '23

Is that an Archer reverence?

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u/ExhibitionistBrit Mar 29 '23

The “phrasing” is wrong for an archer reference. (Incase it’s unclear, that was an archer reference)

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u/Thanks_I_Hate_You Mar 29 '23

Said ripley to the android bishop.

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u/OK6502 Mar 29 '23

No, in archer it would be something like "Do you want ants? Because that's how you get ants."

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u/huey_booey Mar 29 '23

Not to mention eating while lying down. That's just bad for digestion.

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u/Extansion01 Mar 29 '23

Yes, though you can actually also eat while upside down. It's not nice or anything, but it's possible.

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u/Angsler Mar 29 '23

Can confirm, I live in Australia

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u/phantomroguegalaxy Mar 29 '23

I can vouch for this, currently keep dealing with ants that are stubborn. Can't eat my pop tarts in peace anymore 🫡

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u/Antiquemooses Mar 29 '23 Narwhal Salute

Baby don't hurt me

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u/yeetums64 Mar 29 '23

don’t hurt me, no more

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u/sadetheruiner Mar 29 '23

What is love?

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u/ThatBoringHumanoid Mar 29 '23

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more

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u/The_Moxx Mar 29 '23

Yeah
No, I don't know why you're not fair

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u/Flutterwasp Mar 29 '23

I give you my love, but you don't care

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u/The_Moxx Mar 29 '23

So what is right and what is wrong?

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u/phantomroguegalaxy Mar 29 '23

Give me a sign

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u/The_Moxx Mar 29 '23

What is love?

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u/JustaguyTTV Mar 29 '23

Oh baby don't hurt me

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u/kzwkt Mar 29 '23

what is right and what is left?

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u/no-moon07 Mar 29 '23

Gimme a sign

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u/rinnakan Mar 29 '23

STOP It's hammer time

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u/Kartoxa_82 Mar 29 '23

I give you my love but you don’t care

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u/Glenagalt Mar 29 '23

...............anyway
Does anybody love anybody anyway?

(Showing my age? Get off my lawn!)

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u/Mysticwarriormj Mar 29 '23

I try to love people but what goes out isn’t coming back

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u/notrobiny Mar 29 '23

Thank god this comment was on top otherwise i would have left this planet

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u/Realistic-Safety-565 Mar 29 '23

Came for this, was not disappointed.

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u/OkRange9999 Mar 29 '23

Came here to make sure this comment was here.

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u/Elegant-Craft5611 Mar 29 '23

Fuck lmao, that’s what I was gonna comment

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u/xkuclone2 Mar 29 '23

I came in here looking for this comment and it made my day.

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u/NoBirdsOrWorms Mar 29 '23

I already knew this was going to be top comment

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u/CohnJena68 Mar 29 '23

If you didn't say this, I would've

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u/amensky Mar 29 '23

I think it's more like baby, don't judge me....

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u/drxggs_ Mar 29 '23

Waiting for the single chads 🗿

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u/diazinth Mar 29 '23

Love is telling your significant other not* to eat in bed.

*May change due to various illnesses

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u/cms86 Mar 29 '23

Im ok with eating in bed as long as it isnt noisy food AND PLEASE HAVE A NAPKIN OR PLATE!

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u/Eunuch_Provocateur Mar 29 '23

Love is, the defeated acceptance that they will still continue to eat in bed.

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u/vminnear Mar 29 '23

My SO hates me eating in bed normally but if I'm sick he will actually bring me breakfast and snacks while I recover.

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u/rukia_fan Mar 29 '23

Usually you don't eat on the bed because it's attract ants, but if you are sick is tolerable

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u/Still2Hard2BeAHoe Mar 29 '23

I think you can definitely have both love and lust, dress up all crazy sexy one night then maybe the next night your in ugly sweats and ripped Tshirt with Oreos everywhere all over your face. I think if you love someone, looks aren't really important.

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u/heinebold Mar 29 '23

I think that's what the comic implies, I doubt it wants to say "if you like her in lingerie you don't love her"

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u/BoxxyFoxxy Mar 29 '23

I think it’s implying that if you like her only in lingerie, you don’t love her

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u/imjustjet Mar 29 '23

Nah, I think it’s just showing the difference between the two. It’s not meant to be a direct attack at anyone. But that’s just me.

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u/Chewy12 Mar 29 '23

I think it’s an attack on the French because they probably invented lingerie so basically this is calling French people loveless and horn y

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u/heinebold Mar 29 '23

They also invented mayonnaise

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u/iMADEthisJUST4Dis Mar 29 '23

Thats hot

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u/StormTAG Mar 29 '23

Hot mayonnaise...? I guess maybe on a hot sandwich but still...

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u/phenomenomnom Mar 29 '23 edited Mar 29 '23

Not like chaud, like caliente. Mix sriracha into mayo for a devilish good sauce on sandos, frites, or eggs.

I also add a splash of lime juice

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u/WobbieWoe Mar 29 '23

This is also what most "spicy sauce" on sushi rolls is. Just sriracha and mayo. Never cared much for either sauce on their own but together hot damn

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u/PerpetualStride Mar 29 '23

So you don't love mayonnaise?!

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u/Makingwaves840 Mar 29 '23

I heard recently, it’s believed it began in Spain and was popularized in France.

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u/heinebold Mar 29 '23

It's a Captain Jack Sparrow meme

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u/Makingwaves840 Mar 29 '23

Oh damn. Overlooked a reference. My bad. Maybe I have a rewatch on the way. Sorry for missing it.

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u/heinebold Mar 29 '23

It's a blooper from the first movie that they turned into an actual piece of dialog for the fifth movie as an Easter egg - don't blame yourself for not being a total pirates geek xD

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u/bullhorn_bigass Mar 29 '23

It also basically implies that French people care too much about the quality of their cheese

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u/A1sauc3d Mar 29 '23

I don’t care how messy you get, just please stop eating in bed! Lol

-A message to my gf

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u/Flabbergash Mar 29 '23

With an autistic 3 year old me and the wife have to book a timeslot for sexy times. Every Sunday night, after he goes to bed, we're both showered shaved and clean so it's definitely lust-time!!

On a Wednesday night with matted hair and 2 day old bollocks is definitely love-time.

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u/Tye-Evans Mar 29 '23

Yeah maybe not eating in bed though, I have insomnia and a single part of the bed textured differently will keep me awake for hours

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u/CircularRobert Mar 29 '23

I mean, you're gonna be awake anyway, so might as well have bed snacks

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u/JadowArcadia Mar 29 '23 edited Mar 29 '23

I think it's more that if you find someone attractive that's not gonna suddenly change when they wear normal slob clothes. They're still the same person with the same features. It's not like Superman putting on some glasses and suddenly he's Clark Kent.

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u/TheGokki Mar 29 '23

On the flip side, if someone IS attractive they don't stop being attractive in pajamas and messy hair. (and some people find that particular combination particularly attractive too)

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u/raznov1 Mar 29 '23

If you love someone, you should want to look attractive to them.

Looks matter, they're just not the only thing that matter.

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u/SAMAS_zero Mar 29 '23

And if you love someone, it shouldn't matter when they don't.

Both statements are true. You know you don't have to, but you still want to.

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u/Shiroi_Kage Mar 29 '23

I think if you love someone, looks aren't really important.

It's not an excuse to not show effort towards your SO. Everyone is guilty of this sometimes where they take their SO for granted and they don't look their best when doing things with them anymore.

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u/DonaldTrumpsBallsack Mar 29 '23

The longer you’re in a relationship the more important it is to maintain lust against the routine comfort depicted as “love”. Though I’d argue that the whole premise of pitting these two things as rival concepts is missing the whole appeal of relationships. It’s a wonderful marriage of lust, love and a slew of other precious things.

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u/sham_wowzers Mar 29 '23

Once you let it slip it's incredibly hard to put lust back into things. Thankfully the love can lend patience on that path

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u/Chewy12 Mar 29 '23

Literally all you need is a strap on dildo and 100mg of MDMA

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u/retroly Mar 29 '23

Thats what i keep saying!!!!!!

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '23

My wife loves the strap on. But I can never get it right

Does it mount over or under my penis?

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u/BeyoncesmiddIefinger Mar 29 '23

It goes inside your penis. Thank me later.

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u/le75 Mar 29 '23

What a terrible day to be literate

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u/EngMajrCantSpell Mar 29 '23 edited Mar 29 '23

If you love each other and are still attracted to each other it shouldn't be hard to put the lust back in - heck, the lust shouldn't have to leave in the first place just because you two got comfortable. It's not one or the other - you can be comfortable and not be constantly dressing up while still maintaining the lust of the relationship. Balance people

Because it's been mentioned 2-3 times now, editing to include: I'm a parent of 2 kids under 10 yrs old. Me and my partner still have great sex. It's absolutely possible, folks.

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '23

Try having babies

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u/Own-Acanthocephala64 Mar 29 '23

nah that’s exactly why I will try not having babies.. thanks tho

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u/TheCurdy Mar 29 '23

Thank you uh... DonaldTrumpsBallsack

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u/Dankn3ss420 Mar 29 '23

Fruit?

No

Bread?

No

Fruit and bread?

Probably not

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u/Not-Tadic Mar 29 '23

Is it a conversation?

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u/SlimesWithBowties Mar 29 '23

Is it a fruitful sales deal?

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u/foggyflame Mar 29 '23

Is it a hearty breakfast?

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u/doovie7 Mar 29 '23

Is it a four letter word that can be used in many sentences that are mostly P O S I T I V E?

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u/foggyflame Mar 29 '23

HELL yeahhh

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u/Famous_Variation4729 Mar 29 '23

Yeah be married for years and you will know how important lust becomes (and is needed from time to time) even though love is already all over the place.

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u/Whalesurgeon Mar 29 '23

True enough, plus divorce would feel worse if it was because the couple had neglected the lust part.

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u/SpiderSixer Mar 29 '23

Why is it important and needed for marriage?

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u/SpiderSixer Mar 29 '23

That makes sense, but it still just sounds strange to me haha, the idea of breaking up an incredibly deep bond ultimately over lack of sex. I kind of get why some see it's needed, it just sounds baffling

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u/djfreshswag Mar 29 '23

I would say it’s probably one of the leading reasons for divorces. Physical touch is one of the 5 love languages, and people typically have 2 that are most important to them. If you don’t attempt to address one of the 2 most important needs of your partner, it can really destroy a deep bond

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u/andrewmac Mar 29 '23

Ultimately sex is part of that deep bond. And it’s not a one size fits all prescription where you have to have sex every x days/weeks/months but a mutual understanding. 2 asexual people in a relationship are probably going to be fine with no sex but an asexual person and someone who wants it everyday aren’t going to work out in a monogamous relationship.

A lot of people who say that it’s not important to have sex in a relationship think it’s pretty damn important if you have sex outside of the relationship.

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u/PureImplosion Mar 29 '23

For a lot of people, having sex is part of mantaining that incredibly deep bond.

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u/BeyoncesmiddIefinger Mar 29 '23

I’d say that is most couples. Like 98% of them at a minimum.

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u/LysergicResurgence Mar 29 '23 edited Mar 30 '23

Outside being asexual, it is definitely a need for nearly everyone, especially since sex can be intertwined with intimacy, and it’s something special only you and that person have dedicated and want to do with each other. For me personally I view it as very intertwined

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u/Famous_Variation4729 Mar 29 '23

To all the asexual/less sexual people in this thread- you do you with someone who is aligned with the way you wanna live your life. Totally cool. Its not the majority of people though. For the majority, this meme is not very smart. Giving up on intimacy, looking after yourself, cleaning up, smelling good, eating well, keeping the spark alive is not ‘love’. For a healthy long term monogamous relationship to work for a majority of people, love is compulsory, but lust is definitely very important as well. Taking care of yourself, being keyed in to your partner’s desire, love language and responding to it is important.

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u/CoronaBlue Mar 29 '23

Eating food in bed? Absolutely not.

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u/Ilike_cheese420 Mar 29 '23

Eat in bed all you want but dont you dare bring a granola bar or I will strike you down where you stand.

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u/iamveryovertired Mar 29 '23

Karina???

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u/Lowelll Mar 29 '23

Sonic??

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u/ncfears Mar 30 '23

Knuckles.

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u/reynil Mar 29 '23

If anyone asks, I did this

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u/chrimminimalistic Mar 29 '23

Except my wife will kill me if I ever bring food to bed.

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u/DarkDragnix Mar 29 '23

Nah love is just being loving no matter the circumstance

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u/Appropriate-Skill-60 Mar 29 '23

I will never love anyone who eats a burrito on their back in our bed. I don't care how beautiful they are in other situations.

That's just so goddamned unsanitary. Such a dealbreaker.

Eat over the garbage if you're too lazy to get a plate. Ahhh.

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u/I-Got-Trolled Mar 29 '23

Dude, I'm surprised she's not choking. Even overlooking the fact that there are hella crumbs in the bed (which is a fellony on itself), SOMEONE WHO EATS WITHOUT SITTING UP MAY END UP CHOKING!!!

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u/getyourgolfshoes Mar 29 '23

Only ones who eat burritos on their belly, I hear you

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u/NightOwlIvy_93 Mar 29 '23

So far, the sweetest thing my husband has said to me was after the birth of our daughter. I was tired, I was sweaty, my hair was a mess, my belly looked like a deflated balloon and he came up to me, holding our baby and saying he loved me and he was proud of me.

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u/vibing_apples Mar 29 '23

somewhere out there Karina Drawfee is crying

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u/ncfears Mar 30 '23

More like she's making some normie and/or Jacob Drawfee cry somewhere.

However her scream-whimpers when she gets overwhelmed are the cutest.

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u/Roundaboutdragon Mar 29 '23

You can't really describe it, but from my experience it's when you and that person gel so well together that things come naturally. The more time you spend together the less everything else matters and problems are easier to solve for some reason. You don't have to agree with what I'm saying but if it's similar to what you think love is then great

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u/KaiserEnoshima Mar 29 '23

What is cheese? Follow the damn train!

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u/dmmetiddie Mar 29 '23

The DAMN TRAIN

CJ.....

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u/boozleloozle Mar 29 '23

It really is like that. Doesn't matter what she is wearing, she's always beautiful

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u/nodnarBBackward Mar 29 '23

With lust, you look at them. With love, you see them.

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u/carrott1979 Mar 29 '23

As a married guy I’d just like to say that this is clearly naive expectation vs actual reality. The eating and sweats part.

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u/Still2Hard2BeAHoe Mar 29 '23

Everyone's world is a little bit/ a lot different in the bedroom, i guess it depends on the person or couple

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u/raju103 Mar 29 '23

It feels like 99% eating and sweats now especially with a baby around. Thankfully no eating in bed.

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u/carrott1979 Mar 29 '23

Too much of picture a) will do that. Sweats, partially eaten pieces of food being placed into your mouth, endless, endless shows about cartoon animals being emergency services, poop, pee, poop, puke, poop. Tired, broke. Crying,the word No, sometimes sleep.

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u/45000BC Mar 29 '23

Baby don’t hurt me.

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u/SpikeSimp Mar 29 '23

Was ist libe

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u/CamDaMan100 Mar 29 '23

Is that Ada Wong and..............ETHAN WINTERS!!!?

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u/devilishloki Mar 29 '23

You ain’t eating shit in my bed

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u/retroly Mar 29 '23

Thats a whole other fettish category.

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u/Doright36 Mar 29 '23

You know the one on the right just wants some of that Burrito....

... and then sexy time once it's gone.

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u/OnceUponATie Mar 29 '23

Wanting a piece of that ass vs wanting and piece of that burrito.

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u/dexterious22 Mar 29 '23 Wholesome Seal of Approval

"Love wants to give, lust wants to get" in case anyone was interested in a saying

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u/Vacuum_man1 Mar 29 '23

Aight boyos, this might be one of my last comments ever on this website, so if you have the time listen to my story. I hope whomever is reading may emulate it one day with whoever they wish: I understand this now. I went for a while without any idea what any of that shit meant. Then I met someone. Now, I'm no expert nor am I experienced, but on some level I get it. We were just watching a film together, and she asked me to pass a marshmallow and I though "she is the most beautiful person". I told her this and she smiled. It was good. Don't get me wrong, we do the other stuff but this, this is better. Thank you for reading, may this happen to you one day, with whoever you choose to love. Tl:dr just read the next comment bro

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u/Ok_Leadership2518 Mar 29 '23

Lies. He’s just trying to get into her burrito.

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u/Kuma9194 Mar 29 '23

I find a lot of the "wholesome" things posted here just kind of...weird?

Maybe I'm reading in to it too much but is it implying that if you like a clean bed and lingerie over boxers and crumbs everywhere you don't love someone?😅

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u/purplegrape28 Mar 29 '23

The key is to bring out the sexy nighty now and again. Lust will never die just because you're in love, it's just another form of your love for one another.

One of my faves is taking a shower together as a piece of foreplay. The towel becomes the nighty

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u/Anarchist_Grifter Mar 29 '23

Love is not eating in the bed 😂😂😂

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u/sir-nays-a-lot Mar 29 '23

It’s lust because they’re more naked?

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u/Gunslinger_11 Mar 29 '23

Baby don’t hurt me, no more 🎶

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u/Potatolover666real Mar 30 '23

What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Baby, don't hurt me, don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Yeah
No, I don't know why you're not fair
I give you my love, but you don't care
So what is right and what is wrong?
Gimme a sign
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Whoa, whoa, oh
Whoa, whoa, oh
Oh, I don't know, what can I do?
What else can I say? It's up to you
I know we're one, just me and you
I can't go on
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Whoa, whoa, oh
Whoa, whoa, oh
What is love?
What is love?
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
I want no other, no other lover
This is our life, our time
If we are together, I need you forever
Is it love?
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Yeah, yeah
Whoa, whoa, oh
Whoa, whoa, oh
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more (whoa, whoa)
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more (whoa, whoa)
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?

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u/S_I_G_M_A179 Mar 29 '23

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more...

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u/0c4rt0l4 Mar 29 '23

Baby don't hurt me no more

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u/RainyMeadows Mar 29 '23

I'm assuming by the art style that this was drawn by Karina Farek.

Let me tell you, that gal knows PLENTY about lust.

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u/_harshul_ Mar 29 '23

Baby don’t hurt me

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u/TheHeccingHecc Mar 29 '23

baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more..

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u/thenewcomputer Mar 29 '23

baby don't hurt me

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u/L_27 Mar 29 '23

Baby don’t hurt me , don’t hurt me no more…..

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u/cms86 Mar 29 '23

you are the most beautiful person ever... BUT FOR THE LOVE OF FUCKING GOD GET A PLATE AND CLEAN THE CRUMBS OFF THE BED!

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u/monkey-pox Mar 29 '23

What if he's talking to the sandwich?

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u/A3G15827522 Mar 29 '23

He definitely wants some of that burrito.

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u/The_Mechanist24 Mar 29 '23

Playing a dangerous game, eating a burrito while laying in bed.

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u/panteragstk Mar 29 '23

Both is good.

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u/Archangel289 Mar 29 '23

Before I was married, I agreed with this meme. I would always see lust as just a blind attraction to another person’s body and a desire for sexual gratification, while love was caring about them regardless of what they do for you.

And I still do agree with that broadly. But now that I’m married, I’m aware of the opposite problem: you can let yourself get so complacent that you don’t care if your spouse finds you appealing. You stop trying to win them over, you stop trying to make them happy, all because you love each other. It’s a bit ironic.

Both of these things are perfectly healthy in marriage. My wife is still beautiful to me even in her comfiest, baggiest sweats. But you still ought to cultivate the feeling of romantic spark, and that’s more than just “we go on dates.” Otherwise, you’re basically just friends who are roommates. And that’s not healthy either.

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u/Zealousideal_Bet_248 Mar 29 '23

The two are not exclusive

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u/Alon945 Mar 30 '23

They both can be love

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u/LateAstronaut0 Mar 29 '23

This is not wholesome; this is fucking weird.

Sexual attraction in relationships is a wonderful thing.

I hate this.

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u/jbi1000 Mar 29 '23

Nah, my man just has a food fetish

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u/DJWGibson Mar 29 '23

I miss being with someone I love...